Today would’ve been a big day. But instead, it’s a normal day. I don’t know.

North Carolina has banned same sex marriage. This honestly repulses me and makes me beyond angry. Why does the government feel like this is something they have any say in? Who are you to tell someone who they can and cannot love? Why does this issue even exist? Because of the “bible” ? How do you know your religion is right? Or your bible is factual. You don’t. And, if what the bible says is so important, what about “love thy neighbor” ? Treat others as you want to be treated ? We are encouraged to teach younger generations to be accepting. Anti-bullying is has been endorsed so much over the last year or so. Yet, with decisions like this, we are only teaching discrimination and narrow mindedness. America, and a lot of people’s views on religion, make me sick to my stomach.

Some times when I hear about or see the way people handle certain situations, I’m thankful for the head I have on my shoulders. I’m glad I can say that I’ve never been the “psycho” ex girlfriend, or the shit talking friend. Even if I’m really mad because of something, or really hurt, I tend to hope that karma will take care of it. And usually it does. I love everyone in my life so much, but I hope one day everyone takes a step back to evaluate where they are at in life. Having someone not want to be with you is painful. I know this first hand. Becoming that “psycho” will not make anything better though. If someone does not want to be with you, there is someone out there that does. Freaking out, or starting problems, will never fix anything. And makes you look very unclassy. While watching someone you care/d about move on may be painful, you need to focus on yourself. Make yourself better, not bitter.
As for friendships, being a bad friend is never cool. Nothing makes me more upset than listening to people talk badly about someone I care about. If you don’t get along with someone, that’s fine. You’re not going to like everyone you meet, and everyone you meet may not like you. And people change and grow apart. All of these things are inevitable. You don’t need to handle these situations like a douchebag though. Threatening someone, physically fighting, and talking shit solves nothing. You’ll feel better for maybe 5 minutes, but nothing will be resolved. It’s disappointing watching people physically grow older, but not mentally. There are over 6 billion people in this world, and plenty of them will WANT to be your friend. Find them, and leave the things and people you don’t get along with behind.

end rant.